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The idea of having to go where other people tell you to seems lulzy.
When I die, there's no kitty-ing way I'm going to the Christian hell or heaven. Or the Islamic or Jewish versions.
If I'm a bad person, I'm being sent back here. If I'm good, I get to flutter away into the Ethereal Becoming and begin to live out all of my spiritual fantasies. A neverending dream.
It is within my own personal belief that whatever one believes, begets the fate they belong to. If a Christian is good, they go to good little Christian heaven. If not, bad little Christian hell. If you're Agnostic, nothing happens. So on, so forth.
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The idea of having to go where other people tell you to seems lulzy.
When I die, there's no kitty-ing way I'm going to the Christian hell or heaven. Or the Islamic or Jewish versions. If I'm a bad person, I'm being sent back here. If I'm good, I get to flutter away into the Ethereal Becoming and begin to live out all of my spiritual fantasies. A neverending dream. It is within my own personal belief that whatever one believes, begets the fate they belong to. If a Christian is good, they go to good little Christian heaven. If not, bad little Christian hell. If you're Agnostic, nothing happens. So on, so forth. |
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I'm also tired of people trying to use God as a threat. I thought he was a good guy? The guy who cared about you? Not the guy who took his beloved children and damn them all to hell for not believing in him when he himself never took the time to come to his children and help them understand that he really was there. Some people can not see his light as easily as others. |
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I believe that he is God, and when we say God, then he should be the best in everything, I believe. One thing is to be fair with all people. Let us say you were good in your life. You made some minor sins, but overall, you were good. On the other hand, another person was evil; he murdered people for fun or to conquer their land, etc. If both of you went to Heaven, it would be unfair, right? In order to fulfill his duty as a God, he should be fair with his people; those who are good will be in Heavens, and those who are on the opposite side will be in Hell. Now what you said about those who never knew about him is treated fair enough in the Islamic belief. Generally, it is a rule that those who never knew about God because they were poor or just never knew about him and no one ever told them about him will be forgiven and sent to Heavens. Well, personally, I always believe that he is the God of Mercy. I never took him as a threat, but a very kind father actually. I always believe in his forgiveness to all the humans. That is just me though.
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I is Buddhist. A particular form of the original, to be more precise. That's all I'm gonna say.
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I can see where you are coming from. It just seems to me that God went from being something personal and loving to something unfair and feared. I mean, it really does seem anymore that people use God to control the public. You have to do exactly as others deem right, or God will send you to hell. I don't necessarily find that true or right.
And also, like the example you've given me. I believe that God should be fair, of course. But seriously. Eternal life in a place like Hell? That's not fair. I mean, no matter what they did, they don't deserve eternal pain and suffering. That's just evil... Possibly more evil than they are. I mean, the murderer should definitely be pushed more than a tiny smack on the wrist, but wow. I always tried to take him as a father, but all the things I learned over the years, I couldn't always view him as a father but as someone who wants to push us around and punish us for the things that we didn't want to do. I mean, some people have a murderous instinct inside them. Some people are just born like that. I mean, it's both their fault and their natural instinct. I mean, why would God punish us for living these instincts out when he won't even show himself before us? I don't understand God at all. My parents never really helped with that while I was growing up either. |
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I want to remind you that in all kinds of Abrahamic religions, people have been warned that there is Hell. In other words, we were all foretold about this, so there is no excuse. Not only that, but don't forget that there is something else other than Hell. There is Heavens. Why do we have to criticize Hell when there is Heavens. Seriously, if people were that right, they should have aimed to be in eternal joy rather than shouting at God because of eternal pain.
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But lots of people aren't warned...
What about all the native Americans that lived and died before Europeans ever came to proselytize to them? What about Chinese people in the time before Christianity became popular enough in the west for them to hear about it? What about all the pagans that lived in Europe before the rise of Christianity? And besides that, people are warned in a very contradictory manner - Is Islam the one true path to being saved? Does only Christianity work? What about Judaism? Or are they all acceptable? And what about the NON-Abrahamic religions? If god is both powerful and good, why are there so many Taoists, Buddhists, and Hindus that he has let stray? Is not the only reason that they are not Christian that they were not warned in the proper fashion? And what about the time before Judaism developed, the time before the tribes of Israel came about? The vast, VAST majority of people throughout time were not warned - Not even in the ineffective manner that god supposedly warns today. Are all those tens - Even hundreds - of billions of people truly now serving their 'Just reward' eternally burning in hell? |
Considering the direction of the thread, I'd like to chime in.
Let's say we all die.... Well, we all will eventually, but yeah. :l
In most Pagan eyes, those who bow to their respective gods will find themselves before him. Christians before Christ. Catholics before the Holy Trinity, so on. We believe if you abide by the laws and words of your religion true, whatever they may be, whatever good comes of it by your religion will be gifted to you.
The reason I say this, is because not all of the spectral universe was manifested by a single being. It is a conglomeration of great minds and powers. There cannot possibly be a single entity ruling over all; although there would be a great deal of liars and fakes attempting to turn a body of religious cleansing into a means of profit, a single being would snipe them from the heavens, I'm sure.
Every religion, spiritual faction, and historical period in time have one thing in common. Each has it's own way of telling the beginning of Earth, the Men than inhabit Earth, and the demise of both, should the Men become unruly. The Old Religion is somewhat fuzzy on the Apocalypse, since we're not exactly fixated on our end and look more to the silver lining below the black clouds.
Witches and Pagans in general will not see a fiery end and torment lasting eternity in a lake of fire, considering we do not give heed to such practices. But Christians who experiment with the Craft or alternative spiritual enlightenment will find themselves in said fiery lake. This is our way of looking at it. We don't say "OH SINCE YOU'RE NOT A BELIEVER/BOW TO GAEA, YOU'RE GOING TO BE REINCARNATED AS A WORM", considering the "lesser" party isn't not Pagan. Why should my religion affect someone else of a different religion?
Life is kinda like Ford. If we all get to be individual by driving the exact same car, what is the point of expression and individualism? Most people need guidance in life, some just need moral support. Others like to define their own fate, and others like to be lead to fate. We are individuals. We are Human [Or most of humanity is]. If we all fall under one banner, we lose our humanity.
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The reason I say this, is because not all of the spectral universe was manifested by a single being. It is a conglomeration of great minds and powers. There cannot possibly be a single entity ruling over all; although there would be a great deal of liars and fakes attempting to turn a body of religious cleansing into a means of profit, a single being would snipe them from the heavens, I'm sure.
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Life is kinda like Ford. If we all get to be individual by driving the exact same car, what is the point of expression and individualism? Most people need guidance in life, some just need moral support. Others like to define their own fate, and others like to be lead to fate. We are individuals. We are Human [Or most of humanity is]. If we all fall under one banner, we lose our humanity.
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Sorry can someone clear something up for me? Is this topic about discussing ones chosen religion or about discussing belief systems as a whole? I am an atheist and use science as a reasoning for my interpretation of life but would not post within a thread about religion if I have nothing to contribute.
I do however have a question for members who follow a religion, and I'm purely asking this out of curiosity to educate myself and not to make a point but if you follow a religion and believe a divine being made the world, to what extent do you follow science? I have noticed that people who follow a religion only disagree with the big bang theory and a few other topics but mainly accept most aspects of science. How far do you accept some science is fact or do you disagree with all science.
I know this might be a little hard to understand, I'm not entirely sure I asked it without being biased towards science. I've just realised that you all probably accept gravity as fact and will be quick to use it if someone asks you but then the one theory that challenges your religion becomes instantly invalid?
I only ask out of curiosity, this is my first post in the serious section and I feel I've thrown myself in the deep end but hopefully I've contributed in some form.
EDIT: Also I would like to point out that in England it's very uncommon to know anyone who attends church or is devoted to a religion. I find it interesting that still a large percentage of Americans attend church, and yet the large amount in England has decreased so heavily. I find this interesting as England and America are much a like.
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Sorry can someone clear something up for me? Is this topic about discussing ones chosen religion or about discussing belief systems as a whole? I am an atheist and use science as a reasoning for my interpretation of life but would not post within a thread about religion if I have nothing to contribute.
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I do however have a question for members who follow a religion, and I'm purely asking this out of curiosity to educate myself and not to make a point but if you follow a religion and believe a divine being made the world, to what extent do you follow science? I have noticed that people who follow a religion only disagree with the big bang theory and a few other topics but mainly accept most aspects of science. How far do you accept some science is fact or do you disagree with all science.
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I think the thread doesn't specifically targets 'religion' but rather focuses on one's belief as a whole, so you're good to go.
Well, I personally regard religion and science more or less as complementary to each other, but that doesn't necessarily mean they influence each other. This is why the majority of scientific ideas and theories don't go against religions (at least I'm talking about my religion over here). However, it is theories like the Evolution Theory that are considered invalid by my religious teachings. I don't want to go into much detail about this confusion, but it's reasonable enough to doubt such theories considering even scientists do that. |
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... but if you follow a religion and believe a divine being made the world, to what extent do you follow science? I have noticed that people who follow a religion only disagree with the big bang theory and a few other topics but mainly accept most aspects of science. How far do you accept some science is fact or do you disagree with all science.
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There is a lot to say about my reasoning here, but I'm going to keep it short. I am a skeptic/atheist. I believe in only the physical laws and nothing supernatural. I do not believe in a life force nor the continuation of the consciousness after death.
I was raised an orthodox christian but as I grew up I became more and more convinced that the fact that not everything can be proven and sometimes you have to believe without proof is nothing more than self-delusion. No, you cannot measure God. But you can measure the effects and veracity of religious dogma. I haven't found a single sacred dogma, phenomenon, or person or whatever to date, that can prove even a single supernatural claim without a shadow of doubt.
And the more I looked, the more ridiculous it became. Everything I've sought was riddled with logical fallacies, pseudoscience, and requirement to believe more and more outrageous claims(conspiracies hiding proof etc) to explain lack of evidence, the point where logic is turned upside-down so much that anything becomes believable. Had this method of reasoning been effective at... anything, had it had any value, had it ever created anything useful or real for mankind, I would have stuck by. But it hasn't, and so I've abandoned my old beliefs.
I don't need a reason to exist, I don't find morality in following a set of beliefs just because the "big boss" said so[insert deity here], nor do I need a daddy to ensure me that everything is gonna be alright after death. Life and death on earth has never been fair, we continue to kill to survive(plants or animals) just like we have for hundreds of millions of years, I see no reason to have to reinvent reality for the sake of personalized, sweet-sounding beliefs.
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...if you follow a religion and believe a divine being made the world, to what extent do you follow science?
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The only thing that I "question" is the evolution theory (Quotes because I don't know everything about the evolution theory or Catholic's beliefs on the whole situation).
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1 – mariothecellistI, personally, don't follow any religion. I think that religious lessons and texts are moral guidelines, and nothing more. if we get caught up interpreting them literally, we're doing nothing but hurting ourselves. Religion tells us how to better ourselves, not how to command others to live.
The thing about religious scriptures is that they're like the US Constitution. They're so flexible and can be translated in many different ways depending on the reader's interpretation. And although some people take the Bible one way, others read it another. There's no real concrete way of understanding these sorts of things.
Also, in spite of my outward brutish and womanizing appearance, I'm quite feminist and I'm repulsed by religions and cultures that degrade women and strip them of their rights. (Hi, Islam [and to a certain extent most Abrahamic monotheistic religions<but mostly Islam{QUATERNARY BRACKETS}>])
Finally, I don't think a benevolent all-powerful God would give his creations free will. If I was a God (and, I'm sure, at heart, a good majority of humans in general) I wouldn't let them think freely, lest they overthrow me. Then again, if God's all-powerful and one tries to defy him, he'd be liable to kick the guy's ass, right? Basically there's no real sign that a deity exists.
Oh and if we're all created in his image he must either A. look really ****ed up or B. screwed us out of omnipotence.
2 – Jaredvcxz, pokemoneinsteinI'm atheist. I believe that there is no higher power. Also, it does not mean I hate all other religions, in fact quite the opposite. I came to this decision in my teen years, and I believe that my mind was just not made for the thought of a higher power, as I tend to think more rationally with logic and reason.
my personal opinion is that religion was based as a means to an end. ( "Meaning of Life")
The less people have to question the easier life is, but there are a lot of people (such as myself) who enjoy questioning just about everything.
One last point: I know this is a touchy subject with a lot of people, and I apologize if I come across as brash. It's just my opinion and I can sometimes come across as a jerk. My intentions are not to harass, but to inform.
1 – LiteTheIronManNo offense but the OP was horrible. Your reasons for being Baptist are backed up by nothing except your faith. Why yes they are good reasons in your book, but most people who aren't Christian wouldn't understand why you believe in God. There is no concrete evidence that the Bible exists. The only reason I can fathom that you would believe in God is if you were born into a family that was religious, or if you decided to become religious on your own.
This is exactly why I hate debates like this because the non-religious people are always going to win. There is no friggin' concrete evidence that someone should believe in God. Debates about Religion never end well anyway. They usually are closed/deleted within 15 pages of "You should believe in God!/No I shouldn't" and the like. I expect this to end in the same way. I am a very religious Christian-Catholic, and this is just my opinion on the matter.
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There is a bible right next to me. I'm pretty sure that means it exists. Well I meant that there is no evidence that the writings in the Bible is true. As for the rest of your post, that's the entire definition of faith. I'm not exactly sure what you mean by that. How is it the definition of faith? Faith is believing something without seeing it. I'm pretty sure I didn't mention that anywhere. And don't say anything like "This is exactly why I hate debates like this because the non-religious people are always going to win". you only make yourself look like an arrogant jerk, to be blunt. They always do. And I'm an arrogant jerk? Do you have any evidence supporting that? I think not. Just because my post was offensive to you does not mean that I'm a jerk. What exactly makes me seem arrogant? Your responses to my post makes you look arrogant to my standards. But I would've respected you and not have posted that if you hadn't. |
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Originally Posted by Jaredvcxz
How about I rest my case now and be done with it.
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Originally Posted by FreezeWarp
Well, its true: usually in debate the key is evidence, and faith is often defined as something believed in spite of the non-existence thereof.
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Well, its interesting, she has an unbelievable point that I have come to... loathe, for lack of less Star Wars-soundy word, over time. Simply put: the number of Christians who believe in the Holy Trinity (and the finer details of the Bible) for reasons other than the family they were born into is shrinking, and at quite the pace. Moreover, I would have the hardest time trying to find a person who neither clings to religion (for fear of death, etc.) nor believes in it because they find truth in it.
The end result is the practise of Christianity seems to no longer exist for reasons I myself would consider (for whatever reason) to be pure, except for a few rare individuals (I mean, at least compared to the greater norm).
[Full Disclosure: Whatever interest I have in religion is bourne out of sociology. I am myself areligious - I have little interest today in the debate, practise, or even concept of religion, at least on a personal level.]
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Well, its interesting, she has an unbelievable point that I have come to... loathe, for lack of less Star Wars-soundy word, over time. Simply put: the number of Christians who believe in the Holy Trinity (and the finer details of the Bible) for reasons other than the family they were born into is shrinking, and at quite the pace. Moreover, I would have the hardest time trying to find a person who neither clings to religion (for fear of death, etc.) nor believes in it because they find truth in it.
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| The end result is the practise of Christianity seems to no longer exist for reasons I myself would consider (for whatever reason) to be pure, except for a few rare individuals (I mean, at least compared to the greater norm). |
| [Full Disclosure: Whatever interest I have in religion is bourne out of sociology. I am myself areligious - I have little interest today in the debate, practise, or even concept of religion, at least on a personal level.] |
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Originally Posted by LiteTheIronMan
I don't want to contest any of your other statements since I agree for the most part, but I do want to point out that many holy structures mentioned in Scripture have been unearthed and discovered by archaeologists and historians, so some events of the Bible may have occurred at some point
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I don't want to contest any of your other statements since I agree for the most part, but I do want to point out that many holy structures mentioned in Scripture have been unearthed and discovered by archaeologists and historians, so some events of the Bible may have occurred at some point
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She? I have a name you know. I'm not some unknowlegible n00b just because I just joined. Unbelievable point..? The number of Christians are shrinking as people these days are losing their imagination and feel the need to observe science as the answer to everything.
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The practice of Christianity will always exist, as there will always be someone out in the world who believes in God with their whole heart.
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Well sociology isn't always going to be right... If you have little interest for debating, then why are you debating in this thread?
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She? I have a name you know. I'm not some unknowlegible n00b just because I just joined. Unbelievable point..? The number of Christians are shrinking as people these days are losing their imagination and feel the need to observe science as the answer to everything.
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The practice of Christianity will always exist, as there will always be someone out in the world who believes in God with their whole heart.
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Well sociology isn't always going to be right... If you have little interest for debating, then why are you debating in this thread?
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Scientology? What was the historical architecture in Scientology? The plane that dropped off all those people into the volcano? The volcano?
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Originally Posted by FreezeWarp
Dunno, 2000 years seems a bit paltry compared to the 5.5 billion the Earth has left
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Whoever said the world would end in 5.5 billion years? The sun could explode tomorrow for all we know.
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Originally Posted by Jardvcxz
Scientists have measured the lifespan of hundreds, maybe thousands, of stars like ours and have taken years of study to determine the lifespan of the sun.
though I heard elsewhere the sun had 50 billion years left... it was an outdated book though. |
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So you don't trust the credibility of religion, or the credibility of science... I don't know what to tell you anymore.
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But does that really guarantee that the Sun will survive that long? You can't always trust science.
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![]() My reaction... ![]() Nothing is truly credible unless you believe in it. And that depends on whatever person. Religion? Be more specific. Like Hindu religion or Buddhist religion? |

@Jaredxvcz: I was just teasing... Take a chill pill. It's a debate. What did you think you were getting into? Just because I have different opinions than yours, and I didn't happen to understand what you meant does not make me an "idiotic person" or an "arrogant jerk". I have yet to call you any degrading names, yet I'm the troll? Oh yes being called an idiotic person and an arrogant jerk is trolling, no?
Just chill. If you can't take any constructive criticism, you should stay clear of the debate section. It's for debates not pointing out trolls or whatever. If you really want to call me a troll, you could just VM/PM about it and I could say sorry or whatever. You don't need to spam up a thread to say, "Obvious troll is obvious!" Calm the heck down and PM what you want to say so we can resolve this issue if you want.
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Originally Posted by Starshell
No, it doesn't. Nothing guarantees anything, but that's a moot point. The Earth could certainly get blown up by a comet next month, but it's unlikely enough - And unpreventable enough - That there's no point in arguing semantics based off of that. The BEST (And in fact only) way to estimate things that we have is based off of past events, and We've made it a few Billion years as a planet, and a few tens of millions without a major extinction event. Not much compared to 5-ish billion before the sun expands and fries us all, but still several orders of magnitude larger than the piddly 2000 that Christianity offers up in history.
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@Jaredxvcz: I was just teasing... Take a chill pill. It's a debate. What did you think you were getting into? Just because I have different opinions than yours, and I didn't happen to understand what you meant does not make me an "idiotic person" or an "arrogant jerk". I have yet to call you any degrading names, yet I'm the troll? Oh yes being called an idiotic person and an arrogant jerk is trolling, no?
Just chill. If you can't take any constructive criticism, you should stay clear of the debate section. It's for debates not pointing out trolls or whatever. If you really want to call me a troll, you could just VM/PM about it and I could say sorry or whatever. You don't need to spam up a thread to say, "Obvious troll is obvious!" Calm the heck down and PM what you want to say so we can resolve this issue if you want. Hmm... Well you are quite correct in the last sentence, but there weren't many atheist in the olden time. Atheism's big break happened in the 19th-21st Century, when people started to disagree with Christianity. |
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Also, in spite of my outward brutish and womanizing appearance, I'm quite feminist and I'm repulsed by religions and cultures that degrade women and strip them of their rights. (Hi, Islam [and to a certain extent most Abrahamic monotheistic religions<but mostly Islam{QUATERNARY BRACKETS}>])
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Originally Posted by Kaveman
Atheism isn't just about disagreeing with Christianity (or any other religion I might add), it's about accepting that maybe we just exist. The reason Christianity gets hit so hard by atheists is because most people don't know how to keep their religion discussions peaceful. I can't even begin to tell you how many times I am going to Hell, a few times by my own mother even (not that I don't get along with her). I am more than willing to discuss it with someone, but once things get heated, I'm outta there.
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Can you please elaborate on this? I'm interested to see why you think Islam and most Abrahamic religions don't dignify and respect women.
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Although you, Elaine, are right about the fact that proving the existence of God is hard due to the lack of materialized evidences, yet you are summarizing the whole debate as 'Science vs. Christianity'.
First of all, I believe that no matter what your religion is, if you have faith, then you believe in God. With all my respect and love to Christianity, you do not need to cancel out the importance of other religions and narrow the whole existence of faith to Christianity only. In fact, if we believe that there were religions sent before Christianity and that all Abrahamic religions and ones that were sent by God complete each other, then we can agree that religion was able to cover that 5.5 billion years of history that it is assumed not to be covered by religion.
As for Atheism, it definitely existed since the ancient times, otherwise why would God be sending religions in the first place.
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I don't want to explain as I'd be going into stuff that would make it seem like I have a personal bias as opposed to a factual argument, therefore for the sake of my argument I will refuse to cite specific passages from religious texts that I find sexist and anti-feminist.
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Although you, Elaine, are right about the fact that proving the existence of God is hard due to the lack of materialized evidences, yet you are summarizing the whole debate as 'Science vs. Christianity'.
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I'm pretty sure God doesn't exactly "send" religions. We, as humans, created all these different religions. Not God. God may be omnipotent and omniscient, but our destinys can always be changed. And as such, take one stray step, and your life can either be paved into a life-long happiness or eternal despair. Our choices change a lot more than we think.|
If anything, the requirement for women to cover their bodies is a way to protect them from strangers; instead of attracting men on the street, which may lead to illegal sex or rape, the woman's beauty is considered a privilege for her spouse as well as for her close relations (such as her brothers, parents, uncles and parents-in-law; in other words, people who she can't marry). I honestly don't see any issue with that.
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I heard my half-sister (raised Muslim by my father and stepmother) tell a woman she should be ashamed for wearing a dress.
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What you are telling me right now is what your sister said, not the holy text though. Nevertheless, what she said is based on a fact that a lady has to cover certain parts of her body. Now if a dress, or any kind of cloth, doesn't cover these certain parts, then better not to be worn. However, if a dress was worn and the parts we covered, then there is no problem in it.
I want to point out though that women before found wearing short cloths a shame. Even now, old women in U.S.A and Europe find it a shame to wear short clothes or any that would show a lot of her body. I think your opinion is not only against once certain religion, but it against how the old used to think and many people still think the same way. However, you can't deny that by women wearing more covering clothes, raping accidents were less common. |
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What you are telling me right now is what your sister said, not the holy text though. Nevertheless, what she said is based on a fact that a lady has to cover certain parts of her body. Now if a dress, or any kind of cloth, doesn't cover these certain parts, then better not to be worn. However, if a dress was worn and the parts we covered, then there is no problem in it.
I want to point out though that women before found wearing short cloths a shame. Even now, old women in U.S.A and Europe find it a shame to wear short clothes or any that would show a lot of her body. I think your opinion is not only against once certain religion, but it against how the old used to think and many people still think the same way. However, you can't deny that by women wearing more covering clothes, raping accidents were less common. |
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In bold are my problems with your statements. At the root of it all, this mindset is caused by a religious motivation based on what the majority of people were taught as a child by their parents, who were most likely very devout followers of an Abrahamic monotheistic religion (in the US, Christianity, most predominantly.) Furthermore, to imply that women are targets of sexual crimes simply because they're wearing revealing clothing proves my point that a sexist motivation is behind the wearing of covering clothing.
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Well, it is by human nature that men get attracted to women. No one nor any religion can deny that. It was known even in the ancient times. If we want to discuss the matter of covering certain parts of a woman's body then it is undeniable that this has lead to a decrease in sex crimes. Therefore, the rights and safety of the woman were protected. Furthermore, the possibility of giving birth to a child who doesn't know his father is also less. This problem has become quite common, leading to families broken apart. This issue solves both individual and social problems.
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But it is proven than as a lady shows more, she will attract more, causing the chance to get raped to be more.
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Of course they are both wrong. I am not saying that it is alright for men to do so, but I am arguing the not wearing flashy things can be a good way to make accidents less possible. No Lite, it is not about being beautiful or not, it is about what would drive a mad man to rape a girl.
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1 – GalliumGrantBut what about the cases where the women rape the men? Is it because the men wear skanky clothing? I seriously doubt it. Most people think that it's only men who rape women, but they don't seem to realize that women could rape men. It's a rare case, but sometimes it happens.
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My problem with this and the rest of religiously motivated society is that it teaches "don't get raped" instead of "don't rape"- putting the blame and shame on the victim, the woman, instead of preventing the man.
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But what about the cases where the women rape the men? Is it because the men wear skanky clothing? I seriously doubt it. Most people think that it's only men who rape women, but they don't seem to realize that women could rape men. It's a rare case, but sometimes it happens.
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I didn't say that. I was just discussing the woman's part and how we can help her. No one is blaming her. In terms of the man's, of course he is the one to be blamed which is why you find a lot of serious punishments to any rapist.
EDIT: @Elaine: Then now we are discussing how low our society has become due to certain reasons, something unrelated to religion. Anyway, I have to go take a bath. I traveled across two different countries today for hours and I am exhausted. I might come back to continue the discussion, if there is still one. |
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In bold are my problems with your statements. At the root of it all, this mindset is caused by a religious motivation based on what the majority of people were taught as a child by their parents, who were most likely very devout followers of an Abrahamic monotheistic religion (in the US, Christianity, most predominantly.) Furthermore, to imply that women are targets of sexual crimes simply because they're wearing revealing clothing proves my point that a sexist motivation is behind the wearing of covering clothing.
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I'm a woman, and I have to say that a lot of young women feel pressured to wear "revealing" clothing to feel loved. Most teenage boys are obsessed with sex, and don't want to have romantic dinners and what-not. I really envy the olden days where there were chivalrous young people with dreams and crap. Well you can't turn back the hands of time.
Most statistics say that young women nowadays are more likely to die before their male counterparts with the pressure of being beautiful, raising children, and working. It's hard for young girls to fit in these days. I'm not saying guys don't have it bad, but I'm obviously biased on this subject. |
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I'm not saying that rape is wrong. I'm saying that blaming the rape on the woman showing off her body is wrong.
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That's what I find sexist and degrading of women. This statement.
Where is it proven that an attractive women has to flash her breasts to attract? The modestly dressed woman can't be more beautiful or attractive? Furthermore, can't the modestly dressed woman be more liable to have a sexual crime committed against her? Or just as likely? There's no REAL statistic or proof. It's just the assumption one has in a sexually driven society. |
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There's no denying that part of the blame goes to the woman. Unless the woman was performing the rape? No blame should be put on the woman. It's not an absolute must for a women to reveal her body in order to be considered beautiful. However, denying that wearing provocative clothing seduces men is illogical; if society today has become sexually-driven, then it only makes sense for people to be more cautious about it. In most cases, men will find a woman revealing her body more 'sexy' than a woman wearing a veil and a scarf these days, which is a sad truth. I understand that it's not always the woman's fault, but as a responsible human being perhaps she has to take some measures in order to protect herself. As Elaine has mentioned, a typical woman in a culture that judges her based on her looks will attempt to look more attractive. This statement completely ignores the perversity of societal norms. It has to be understood from the women's point of view as well. Trust me, there are EXTREMELY serious consequences imposed on any rapist, under any circumstance. I'm not denying that. |
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There's no denying that part of the blame goes to the woman.
Unless the woman was performing the rape? No blame should be put on the woman. It's not an absolute must for a women to reveal her body in order to be considered beautiful. However, denying that wearing provocative clothing seduces men is illogical; if society today has become sexually-driven, then it only makes sense for people to be more cautious about it. In most cases, men will find a woman revealing her body more 'sexy' than a woman wearing a veil and a scarf these days, which is a sad truth. I understand that it's not always the woman's fault, but as a responsible human being perhaps she has to take some measures in order to protect herself. As Elaine has mentioned, a typical woman in a culture that judges her based on her looks will attempt to look more attractive. This statement completely ignores the perversity of societal norms. It has to be understood from the women's point of view as well. |
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But what about the cases where the women rape the men? Is it because the men wear skanky clothing? I seriously doubt it. Most people think that it's only men who rape women, but they don't seem to realize that women could rape men. It's a rare case, but sometimes it happens.
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Atheism isn't just about disagreeing with Christianity (or any other religion I might add), it's about accepting that maybe we just exist. The reason Christianity gets hit so hard by atheists is because most people don't know how to keep their religion discussions peaceful. I can't even begin to tell you how many times I am going to Hell, a few times by my own mother even (not that I don't get along with her). I am more than willing to discuss it with someone, but once things get heated, I'm outta there.
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Atheism is quite a strange subject. I assume there are many different kinds of Atheist. The extremists are the one's who will go to any measure to remove "God" from any political text. It's like the extremists of Islam I suppose. To a lesser extent of course.
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First of all, I believe that no matter what your religion is, if you have faith, then you believe in God. With all my respect and love to Christianity, you do not need to cancel out the importance of other religions and narrow the whole existence of faith to Christianity only. In fact, if we believe that there were religions sent before Christianity and that all Abrahamic religions and ones that were sent by God complete each other, then we can agree that religion was able to cover that 5.5 billion years of history that it is assumed not to be covered by religion.
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As for Atheism, it definitely existed since the ancient times, otherwise why would God be sending religions in the first place.
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I want to point out though that women before found wearing short cloths a shame. Even now, old women in U.S.A and Europe find it a shame to wear short clothes or any that would show a lot of her body. I think your opinion is not only against once certain religion, but it against how the old used to think and many people still think the same way. However, you can't deny that by women wearing more covering clothes, raping accidents were less common.
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I'm a woman, and I have to say that a lot of young women feel pressured to wear "revealing" clothing to feel loved. Most teenage boys are obsessed with sex, and don't want to have romantic dinners and what-not. I really envy the olden days where there were chivalrous young people with dreams and crap. Well you can't turn back the hands of time.
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Most statistics say that young women nowadays are more likely to die before their male counterparts with the pressure of trying to be beautiful, raising children, and working. It's hard for young girls to fit in these days. I'm not saying guys don't have it bad, but I'm obviously biased on this subject.
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Well, it is by human nature that men get attracted to women.
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No one nor any religion can deny that. It was known even in the ancient times. If we want to discuss the matter of covering certain parts of a woman's body then it is undeniable that this has lead to a decrease in sex crimes.
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Therefore, the rights and safety of the woman were protected. Furthermore, the possibility of giving birth to a child who doesn't know his father is also less. This problem has become quite common, leading to families broken apart. This issue solves both individual and social problems.
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That's what I find sexist and degrading of women. This statement.
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Where is it proven that an attractive women has to flash her breasts to attract? The modestly dressed woman can't be more beautiful or attractive? Furthermore, can't the modestly dressed woman be more liable to have a sexual crime committed against her? Or just as likely? There's no REAL statistic or proof. It's just the assumption one has in a sexually driven society.
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Well that's her decision to show more off her body. But the men shouldn't be prowling around looking for girls to rape. They're both wrong. If only the world would gain a little common sense, we wouldn't have to debate this stuff.
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Of course they are both wrong. I am not saying that it is alright for men to do so, but I am arguing the not wearing flashy things can be a good way to make accidents less possible. No Lite, it is not about being beautiful or not, it is about what would drive a mad man to rape a girl.
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My problem with this and the rest of religiously motivated society is that it teaches "don't get raped" instead of "don't rape"- putting the blame and shame on the victim, the woman, instead of preventing the man.
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But what about the cases where the women rape the men? Is it because the men wear skanky clothing? I seriously doubt it. Most people think that it's only men who rape women, but they don't seem to realize that women could rape men. It's a rare case, but sometimes it happens.
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In this particular situation, I don't understand what's the problem with the sexist motivation you're talking about. If you're a married woman, why would you want to seduce other men? It would be disrespectful to your spouse and will ultimately result in family break-downs. If an action proves to be effective in reducing social problems without being consequential on the person doing it, then it only makes sense to do it.
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It's not an absolute must for a women to reveal her body in order to be considered beautiful. However, denying that wearing provocative clothing seduces men is illogical; if society today has become sexually-driven, then it only makes sense for people to be more cautious about it. In most cases, men will find a woman revealing her body more 'sexy' than a woman wearing a veil and a scarf these days, which is a sad truth. I understand that it's not always the woman's fault, but as a responsible human being perhaps she has to take some measures in order to protect herself.
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1- If a woman was walking in the middle of an empty street (a wrong action) and then a drunk driver suddenly appears and runs her over, is it correct to say that the woman cannot get the blame because she didn't know what was going to happen? If the action that she's originally doing is wrong, you cannot justify it after a bigger mistake has taken place because of the original one.
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2- As I have numerously said, why do you want to look good in front of others when you are married? As for single ladies, it's still not right to justify a mistake because the society around you has become wrong; many of the women around me are Muslim, and although they never wore provocative clothing, they were still able to get married, have kids and enjoy their lives.
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Before anything, I'd like to point out that I'm not willing to drag this debate much further than I originally intended, especially since I believe no matter how much I say, FreezeWarp (and possibly other people) will not be convinced against the majority.
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That's because men are pigs. It's an imperfect solution, and I would imagine restricting the actions of men rather than women might be a slightly less imperfect one. (At least, that has been the solution in the U.S.A. and Europe more recently.)
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What is the punishment to a women for breaking this rule (wearing fewer clothes than desired); how would that "go down"?
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I'm going to ask you the same thing I asked spirit: what would happen to a women who decided to one day not adhere to the dress requirements?
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Universally speaking, monogamy is not required for successful, healthy families.
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...A women isn't allowed to feel beautiful? This is news to me...
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So, how does that relate to rape? The two things are different. If a women used a crosswalk and a drunk ran her over, than she is completely innocent. Same thing with rape (usually, at least, but the rare exceptions aren't relevant).
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Before anything, I'd like to point out that I'm not willing to drag this debate much further than I originally intended, especially since I believe no matter how much I say, FreezeWarp (and possibly other people) will not be convinced against the majority.
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Who said you're not allowed to have sex in Islam? You're just not allowed to have illegal sex without being legally married. As long as you're married, you can have sex as much as you want.
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I get the feeling that you think every single woman over here follows the Islamic teachings. Guess what? There are women who refuse to wear a scarf and covering clothings because they're not 'convinced' by it. From what I've seen around me, the majority of Muslim families do not force women to do that unless the latter accept it, which means that they are given a choice (although they're encouraged to accept it). Of course, there are some parents who force their daughters to cover themselves, which is their way of disciplining them (similar to how many parents raise up their children differently). Barring the extremist Saudi Arabia, NOTHING is done to women who do not wear covering clothing, even though it's encouraged to do otherwise. I personally have a good number of relatives who don't wear a head-scarf, but nothing has ever been done to them.
Now, however, if a woman chooses to wear a head scarf and covering clothing (they go hand in hand, properly speaking), then suddenly decides she doesn't want to do that any more, the reaction can be mixed. Thankfully, I come from a family which is not extremist but also not very loose, so I know that it is seriously not preferred to do that but equally not very sinful comparatively. The more concerning scenario is when a woman chooses to wear covering clothing for a week let's say, does otherwise the next week, then goes back to the original appearance the following week. This is considered a ridicule of the Islamic teachings, and although I don't know what the punishments are for this, I know that they are not 'cruel' or 'degrading'. So yes, they are nowhere near as serious as you think. |

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No need to be nit-picky; he obviously meant 'incidents' but used the wrong word.
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If you want to debate it that way, then who said polygamy is not allowed in Islam? You're allowed to have up to four wives as long as you're legally married to them (of course, there are various teachings which you need to follow in order to be fair to all your women in this case).
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Come to think of it, behind your sarcasm lies a potentially offensive statement; are you implying Muslim women cannot be beautiful? FYI: the majority of Muslim women are stylish in the sense that they wear 'modern' clothing while still obeying the teachings of Islam. As I have already stated before, Islam encourages ALL women to look good as long as they don't cross their lines. Strangely enough, you're being hypothetical by saying that a woman cannot look 'beautiful' without wearing non-revealing clothing, although you also agreed with Lite when he said that a modestly dressed woman can also look beautiful...
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I specifically said that she was walking in the middle of the street, which is a wrong action anyway. Although the drunk driver gets most of the blame for driving under the influence (similar to a rapist, who has done something horrible), the woman also gets part of the blame for not walking on the pavement (similar to a woman trying to seduce others and not taking 'safety' measures).
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I find this kinda inexplicable; why, after potentially spending a lot of years in choosing the girl of your dreams, would you want your wife to show off her beauty to people around her? If I'm married to a gorgeous wife, I'll not want strangers to set eyes on her and envy her. Again, your impression of 'looking good' seems to be narrowed down to being 'not in cover', even though you agreed that a modestly-dressed woman can look beautiful.
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It would help if you defined what was to be convinced, and who the majority is.
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I never post in this forum because I believe the BS I say, for what it's worth (while some may find it annoying, my main purposes are to learn more about people and learn more myself, and where possible encourage healthier debate -- that is, one that contains fewer annoying metaphors, fallacies, and so-on).
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'Wasn't my point (...nor do I see how it could have made the slightest bit of sense as such). To clarify:
It is /not/ necessarily human nature for a man to be attracted to a women (or vice-versa or whatever); merely for compatible mates to reproduce. |
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No one stated polygamy wasn't allowed in Islam. I was showing that your metaphor was ineffective. Also, strictly speaking when only one gender is allowed multiple marriages, it's polygyny (for males marrying multiple females) or polyandry (for females marrying multiple males).
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It seems unnecessary, but I'd rather not look like I'm avoiding the question thing: my point merely was that *some* people /do/ seem to need artificial means (makeup, etc.) to feel beautiful. Personally, I know this from my sister. I know /some/ of what she's gone through.
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My point being it depends on your definition. It is /not/ unreasonable one would find no fault what-so-ever on the women even in your context.
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That is a culture shock thing, truth-be-told. I could write a paper on it, but instead a single sentence will do to summarize: people like feeling proud of (and showing off) their accomplishments.
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A beautiful mate may very well be (in, no doubt, the most complimentary sense imaginable) the greatest accomplishment a person will ever make in their life; at least, from some Western perspectives. Nor do I find such a thing at all unreasonable: after all, people are beautiful.
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What's to be convinced: that Islam doesn't degrade women and strip them of their rights (in response to Lite's statement).
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Okay, so I made what you considered a bad metaphor at 1:00 AM, and now that's done. Can we get over it?
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Ah, okay. Your comment was vague so I didn't quite understand why you said that. To clarify my statement, if you're married, you're not allowed to have illegal sex with another person. You can only have sex with your legal spouse. Also, it wasn't me who stated that it's instinctual for men to be attracted to women anyway.
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Wait, I didn't use a metaphor to talk about monogamy. I said that doing illegal sex will ultimately result in family break-downs, and that's when you posted that comment. As for that last bit, I wouldn't know the technical terms used for each case so I'm gonna have to take the words of a professional in this field.
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It's not a sin to put light make-up on when you're wearing covering clothing to beautify yourself, but putting tons of it is not really preferred.
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Continuing on with my utterly horrible metaphor, why do you think not even one small part of the blame goes to the woman?
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For what it's worth, two countries both with Islam as the dominant religion could be different. From what I understand you live in Dubai, which is by-and-large the crown atop the Middle East. So... it may be different there than elsewhere.
A could example of this I actually can source (both from several Indian friends and separate research) is India, where in rural areas husbands will still, in rare but all the same existent cases, set their spouse aflame if upset at them (usually results in death), while in Urban areas the story is much more... well, basically, you'd be hung for the same act, more or less. |
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...No, wasn't a metaphor. Dunno, the point ultimately was (originally) that your statement seemed to assume that it was unreasonable for a women to be married and date another man (with her husbands approval); while its not exactly common (...to say the least), it still is a valid position in some realms. Still, outside of that, I'm not really debating your point there.
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No, but it is a me-vs-the guy over there sorta thing. I personally can't stand women with loads of makeup (and for the most part prefer the naturalist look), but I don't see anything wrong with them doing so for their own (sometimes) petty reasons.
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Well, it's hard to put it in proper perspective, but I guess doing so would go something like this (it's hard to put the full act into words, for what should be fairly obvious reasons):
In general, the idea of consent is fairly key. In playing out a (fairly typical, I would assume) rape scenario in my mind, I imagine something along the lines of a man forcing himself upon a women, despite her repeated attempts to get away, calls for help, insults, whatever. Essentially, he is refusing to remove himself from her body despite her (words fail here) wishes. And, somehow, the idea that she somehow still wa s at (any level of) fault for causing an act which she, at that point, had no control over, and moreover was the sole victim of (to a crime considered second to murder, no less, at least by many Western countries), well, it doesn't really make sense. I can read your point to reasonably say (and leave it quite simply as) "men have no control over themselves", but I'm pretty sure that's not the idea here. Again, the scale of things is important: I'm not talking about any statistical benefit (which I'm sure exists, but still at what cost?), I'm talking about real-life situations. Incidents of rape that actually happen. And at no point do I see a reasonable explanation for how a women, by dressing slightly proactively, can be seen as the cause for an abhorrent violation of her rights. |
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(Also, p.s., this entire little subsection of the post is largely a string of words, since I know of no intelligent way of expressing the idea at hand. Don't take it as an insult, just a raw feed of what I think to myself as I try to understand where you are coming from.)
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This thread seems like it's on a crash-course to nowhere. If someone could please tell me how a debate about religion turned into a debate about rape, I'd be rather grateful.
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Unfortunately, your point is right. Not all Middle Eastern countries follow Islamic teachings properly, which is why I think the Arab world is regarded as inferior to the Western world (when the opposite was true in the past). However, I guess the world cannot function perfectly, so I can say that for the most part, rural areas are really the only parts where women MIGHT be stripped of their dignity (and let's face it, that doesn't only occur in the Middle East specifically).
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I do want to add that if people in the West (the extremists, I suppose) could read the things I'm posting and understand the different side of things (the proper side), I'm pretty sure we wouldn't be called terrorists by them. Strangely enough, the same applies to the minority of people over here who bash the Western world. It's a two-way reality- a sad one at that -created from misconception and misleading media.
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Again, I get what you're trying to put across and I agree with it. However, over here, dating another man while married is considered really disrespectful to your husband and will probably ultimately result in a divorce under the excuse of 'cheating'. And maybe it's a culture thing, but men over here never approve their wives specifically dating other men. A small number of them may allow their wives to have male friends, but otherwise, it's different over here.
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This thread seems like it's on a crash-course to nowhere. If someone could please tell me how a debate about religion turned into a debate about rape, I'd be rather grateful.
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3 – PokeMaster, Charizard98, GalliumGrantI am a non practicing Catholic so I believe in God and the bible, but I don't believe in having to go to church each Sunday.
1 – GalliumGrant
5 – Shadow, FreezeWarp, Elaine, PokeMaster, GalliumGrantthese type of subjects are usually very diverse =3
but as for me i dont believe in anything, this is my opinion so no flaming me yeah?
1- thinking that we are the only living things in the universe is just stupid, and thinking that IF there was a god he would just be on this planet is abit odd.
2-if there was a god seeing everything that goes on in this world ranging from murder,kidnapping,war etc dont you think he would have done something by now?
remember this is my opinion so respect it, more than welcome to pick holes though.
but if anything i think people are relying to much on "god" these days if you are interested i can expand on that but that does not have anything to do with this subject though =3
1 – GalliumGrantEven though I am quite the religious person myself, I completely respect your opinion and I believe you. There has to be something more than just us in the universe, and wouldn't there be a God for them too? And with all these bad acts going on, it's almost like he doesn't do much.
My personal opinion is that I believe God governs the whole universe, and that even though murder and all these things happen, it's just natural law. It happens in the animal kingdom everyday, and since we're just evolved mammals, it would be natural for us to behave similarly somehow.
2 – Shadow-lucario, GalliumGrantI am an atheist because i view everything scientifically and a higher diety makes no sense to me. I also think that religions are illogical because they limit people for stupid reasons.
In a perfect world, we would'nt debate about this. People are entitled to their own opinion.
1 – GalliumGrant@Rape debate: Middle East =/= 'Murica. The countries are vastly different and on top of that, white men pretty much dominate the US, period. Also, the most common defense in rape cases (for those that the defendant is male) is that it was consensual. Some even say she had it coming due to clothes and whatevs. It's just flawed, badly. The US crime system is also flawed and only looks good on paper. Just because she smiles at you, does not mean she wants to go home with you. For some reason, men have a VERY hard time figuring out the difference.
About Religion: Personally, I do not practice a Religion due to the fact that I view prayers and practices as therapy. HOWEVER, I do believe there is SOME sort of being that guards/guides spirits. C'mon, if you believe ghosts are real (which they ARE) then you pretty much accept that "holy" beings also exist. Both are not explained by science, so that's not a defense.
Edit: I forgot to mention what I do believe in, lol. I view more on will more than anything. Your choices will grant me the ability to judge you (not in a mean way, lol). Bad choices, bad person. Good choices, good person. Simple, observant, fascinating.
After reading the last few pages of thread . . . I'm still wondering how the "debate" about rape popped up ._.
Anyway, in the hopes of clarifying the argument that if God was a thing, there wouldn't be murder and bank robberies and West Nile Virus and everything . . .
Okay, West Nile is a bad example because that's just nature being nature, but most religions are pretty straightforward about some God-like figure or another giving people free will. To have divine intervention stop someone from clubbing someone else over the head may save the other's live (or, at the very least, a lot of trouble for both of them) but it would also suspend the free will of the attacker. Plus, divine intervention seems to be a pretty rare thing to being with.
There do seem to be some exceptions to this in the Bible and whatnot iirc, so there's got to be more to this, but just some food for thought.
This is kind of more of a opinion question, but how does everyone feel about the word "pray"? When someone says, "I'll pray for you" do you take this as ridiculous because you think religion is ridiculous or do you view their emotions meaning you view that sentence as "I'm hoping things will get better for you" without the religious contents?
When most people say "I'll pray for [insert something here]," they mean "I'll keep that in mind and I hope said situation gets better," and maybe "if I have a good memory I'll give it a recitation at Church next Sunday." I've even known a few atheists/agnostics who say that once in a while.
Never thought about what would happen if you said that to someone who thought religion is flat-out ridiculous. If they threw a fit over it that would be kind of a jerk move, though, since the person is giving out condolences and being rejected 
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