Magikarp
2 posts
Good day everyone, I'm Hammeror and new (obviously). I'm curious and I like to get to the bottom of things. I'm not content knowing what someone did; I want to know why they did it. I don't simply take things as they are and move on; I'm not content skimming along on the surface; I don't feel I'm wasting time by digging for the meaning of things.
I'm a very understanding person and I am willing to take the time to find out what's going on with other people, especially if they're in distress. I'm a good listener, I don't criticize, and I offer unbiased, respectful, honest advice when it's requested. I get enthusiastic about charitable work, helping others, and making the world a better place.
I don't feel the need to impose my standards on others or say things that, even though true, cause pain.
I'm in touch with my own feelings, which helps put me in touch with the feelings of others. I don't buy the logic that my happiness comes ahead of everyone else's because unless I'm happy I'm incapable of making anyone else happy.
Sometimes I react before I think. The good news: I don't tamp down my feelings. The bad news: I sometimes say or do things that I later wish I could take back.
I have a knack for knowing what's going on in the hearts and minds of those around me, without their having to tell me explicitly. People tend to turn to me with their problems because they know I care, and that I will likely offer good advice and a helping hand.
I do not feel that people with sad stories are just looking for attention, or have brought their problems upon themselves.
I'm a carefree person and I do what I need to do, without demanding that I'll be perfect. The world isn't flawless and I don't feel the need to pretend that I can make it flawless in my own little way. Therefore, I don't examine everything with a microscope and am comfortable cutting myself and others a lot of slack.
I don't need for everything I touch to turn out perfectly. I don't go looking for errors, omissions, shoddy work, or bad taste.
I feel that a clean, orderly desk is the sign of a person who doesn't have enough to do. Schedules and "to do" lists feel stifling; I thrive on a sense that anything goes, and know that the world won't end if I don't clean up after finishing a job.
I don't need to know that everything is in its place, I'm very loose; it is not empowering to me to feel that the world around me is neat and organized. Mowing down every item on my "to do" list, every day, does not bring me joy.
I am not good at resisting temptation and avoiding overindulgence; I am not the kind of person who doesn't regret anything I said or did.
I'm said to be a very warm-hearted person; I have a genuine interest in other people. I'm a natural host, and am always thinking about how I can increase the happiness of those around me. When friends have problems or are in trouble, I'm usually the first person they turn to for aid and comfort. I don't always say exactly what I'm thinking; I don't like the idea of causing anyone pain because of my criticism.
I am gentle with others, both physically and emotionally. I am careful not to upset people and go out of my way to find the nicest way to say something. I naturally focus on the fact that the world is full of wonderful people, places, and things. I don't think of myself as tough-minded or gruff, nor do I need to be seen as some kind of objective source of truth and rationality.
And to end my constructive introduction, I really hope to fit in perfectly in this community. A special thank you to whoever created this forum! (Hopefully I will find the cure to my Pokémon obsession). 
Haxorus
476 posts
Shaymin
2,679 posts
Welcome! A cure to your Pokemon obsession? Who needs that, pfft. 
Oh and, just saying but you have the same avatar as Vix.
Celebi
1,269 posts
Volcarona
660 posts
Kyurem
2,222 posts
Hello Hammeror! Welcome to VR! Have fun, be safe, and make sure you read the rules!
BTW, you have the same avy as TreacherousVixenn. Make sure you two aren't on at the same time!
